A lost relationship can lead to a lot of heartbreak, depression, and trauma, especially if you are still in love with your ex-partner. However, do not give up without a fight. You can adopt a few subtle, yet powerful strategies that can get back the lost relationship for you. Here are a few tips –
Calm down your emotions with acceptance – An agitated mind certainly cannot think with clarity and cannot act in the right manner. The first step, therefore, must be to calm your mind and accept the fact that the relationship is over and your partner has moved on. Equipped with a calm mind, you can now work on a reunion.
Act with confidence and wisdom – A confident man can achieve great success. Confidence is the key here and even though you are totally shattered, do not indulge in half-hearted attempts to win your love back. No amount of begging, groveling or whining is going to help as much as a confident approach will.
Accept your mistakes and apologize with sincerity – If you are at fault, you must first show your ex-partner how much you regret your hasty actions by accepting your mistakes and apologizing sincerely. Realizing that you are making an effort to change will certainly get them to sit up and notice you all over again.
Keep away from your ex for a while after the breakup – Give enough time for both of you to calm down frayed nerves by keeping away from each other immediately after the breakup. This will give time to ruminate over what went wrong and identify problem areas in your relationship. If you do have to be around your ex, do so in a discreet manner rather than openly talking or pleading.
Take good care of your body and mind to enhance your image – Rather than neglecting your health and appearance as a logical result of your depression, rise with confidence and re-attract your ex by looking fresh, healthy, vibrant and attractive. Exercise and eat well to remain fit and bubbling with good health. Seeing you so confident, happy and healthy will make your ex-feel insecure and may also lead to repentance for leaving you.
After a break from each other, go out for a coffee – After giving your ex-sufficient time to calm down, do not immediately ask for a reunion meet. Just ask him or her for a coffee outing as a first step in getting back your lost relationship. Keep your conversation casual and general and gauge each other with a keen sensitivity.
Take enough time to plan your reunion meet – Wait with patience to establish a comfortable friendship with your ex before suggesting a reunion. At the reunion meet, address any tricky issues and sort them out before re-initiating your relationship.